Things I meant to say naked
Things I Meant to Say Naked is a podcast about desire, intimacy, and the naked truths we carry in our bodies. Hosted by Figs—a certified sex therapist and chronic overthinker—this show explores the messy and beautiful parts of being human and wanting connection.
Each episode blends sex education, emotional insight, cultural commentary, and the occasional confession. Some episodes are solo: just Figs unpacking love, shame, eroticism, and everything in between. Others feature guests, lovers, and listeners who want to confess things they "meant to say naked.”
Whether you’re curious, confused, healing, or horny—you’re welcome here.
Episodes
10 episodes
How good are we at taking turns? Threesomes
Today’s episode explores the downward spiral Figs went through after a conversation with a friend who confidently declared that only two things end a marriage: babies and threesomes.Figs has thoughts...In this episode, she ...
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Season 1
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Episode 10
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40:05
Trying to Be Patient With a Man Who’s Sending Mixed Signals: letter from a lover (listener)
Today’s episode features an anonymous letter from a listener navigating the blurry, emotionally charged terrain of a situationship that refuses to stay casual. After a recent divorce and a firm decision to “take things slow,” what begins as an ...
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Season 1
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Episode 9
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35:40
I'm in a situationship...now what?
Today's episode wraps up our three-part series on situationships. (And if you haven’t heard the first two yet, I highly recommend you give them a listen first.)Now that you know what a situationship is, let’s talk abo...
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Season 1
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Episode 8
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31:47
why do we keep going back into situationships
Welcome to part 2 of our three-part series on situationships.Today, we’re diving into the long-term psychological effects of situationships—and why so many of us leave one only to slip right into another. Cue: “ReLEase ME!”<...
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Season 1
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Episode 7
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19:04
situationships...wHY???
Welcome to part 1 of our three-part series on situationships.Today's episode dives into why they happen and why they are so common. This episode is part one of a three-part series exploring the dating phenomenon of situationships.&nb...
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Season 1
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Episode 6
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32:48
glory to the glory hole
In today's episode, we go into the inglorious history of the glory hole, its queer cultural significance, and what it reveals about ourselves — changing what we mean by 'vulnerable'. for updates, follow me on instagram and tiktok: @...
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Season 1
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Episode 5
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29:25
Ghostface kink and why we love to be chased
Maybe you love horror—or maybe you’ve even AI’d yourself into your favorite final girl. Or… you’ve got a thing for masked men. In this episode, Figs dives into the rising interest in predator/prey play and mask play (a.k.a. the “Ghostface kink”...
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Season 1
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Episode 4
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37:59
Can we be toxic while healing?
Just because we are healing doesn't mean life catches up with us. Today, we will talk about how you can be in therapy, journaling, and setting boundaries… and still repeating toxic patterns. You’ll get: red flags to watch in yourself, antidotes...
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Season 1
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Episode 3
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35:48
why men send dick pics?
The dick pic. Or should I call it: genital gerrymandering?Today's episode focuses on just how common are dick pics? Why our penis princes send them? And what to consider before concocking a photo creation.Citation an...
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Season 1
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Episode 2
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39:25
Do we let the dogs out? Keeping pets in the bedroom
It sounds funny, but for many couples, pets in the bedroom can spark real tension around intimacy. Do you let them stay? Do you kick them out? And what does each choice say about us? Figs dives into our desire, boundaries, and relationship with...
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Season 1
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Episode 1
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20:15